I chose to start SuRe with Charlie with this topic because of the alarming increase in number of deaths and injuries resulting from DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
Adultery/Cheating, in my own opinion, currently contributes to about 80% of domestic violence to date - in Zimbabwe.
Some people may want me to explain or clarify what I mean by Domestic Violence. Domestic violence is "violence" commited by someone in the victim's domestic circle. This includes partners and ex-partners, immediate family members, other relatives and family friends. The term is used when there is a close relationship between the offender and the victim.
WHAT IS CHEATING?
In my own opinion, Cheating is basically when a spouse or lover is unfaithful. Cheating can mean a whole lot of things be it a physical or emotional relationship with someone who isn't your lover or spouse..., but I think if you are reading this you already exactly know what "cheating" means.
THE MATHEMATICS OF CHEATING
In my own opinion, it's unfortunately as simple as this - People who cheat on their spouses or lovers know that they are cheating. They know that what they are doing is wrong. Yet, when you ask someone who has cheated why they did it, words you often hear from them are something like, "it just happened", "it isn't what you think"... and somon, but the WHOLE TRUTH of the fact is, in my opinion, when people cheat, they more than know what they are doing.
There is no excuse in cheating!
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