Emily hung
Emily hung 熊智晴
Born 28 may 2003
Died 2 January 2018 (7:22AM)
Cause: jump down from her grandpa 24/F window at 7:20am
Reason: heavy study stress from her high school high study pace
Emily hung (Facebook url Emilyhung528) died on second January 2018 (seven years ago)
If you Google her name, you will see why I take her as my today subject topic.
In Google Hong Kong, her name brings her primary school name and her prizes.
Almost all the academic prizes in her primary school also has her name and her nomination and her footsteps.
From what Google shows, you should also know that Emily hung was a very happy girl and was still able to handle her studies and homework.
Then the problem starts after she is primary 6, the last year she studied in primary school.
Then secondary school allocation, she was being allotted or appointed to my past high school to study.
This school has some reputation and the students there are study under very heavy stress and very strong classmates and if you not study hard you will rank 40-50 in the whole grade.
This school is where her hell life start which caused her death two and a half years later since she started studying there.
At the first year, she always study very hard and originally if only study it is no serious stress but school needs students to become ALL ROUNDER.
ALL ROUNDER means you must also join some "extra curricular activities" (ECA) apart from studying all the subjects and the books and as what I had just mentioned earlier. This high school is "hell school".
How hell this school can really be
This school is a super brand name. School in tuen mun in Hong Kong. It does not accept failing students. Means if you drop a lot of marks it will detonation your grade number one level or if you are really too bad results, it would ask you transfer to other schools.
It ask all students to study hard and all students studied like hell without any happy times to rest or "be lazy".
To Emily hung, firstly she always got prized when she was in primary school and also in secondary school, she too.
She join Chinese debate group, she go play cheerleader group, she join valleyball club, she also joins drawing club. She join a lot of clubs and get many awards and prizes from the contests just like her primary school times.
But do not forget that, time is only 24 hours one day.
When Emily do so many tasks, can she be released and be happy? No.
When she released all her life time studying and doing so many tasks of extra curricular activities, how can she have time to rest or play or smile or laugh or singing or enjoy her own ME time?
And, a human ability is actually very limited
Any one person with so many works of the same time would finally explode and wish to die.
So Finally... when Emily reach secondary three, Emily told her friends it is a great pressure. She loves freedom.
It was just December 2017.
Emily did not tell her brother and parents that she was actually unable to endure so many works on the same time because she had been on a stage that she keep on getting prizes when she study in school with very very high marks and her parents had great expectations on Emily.
She is a "model student" but being a MODEL STUDENT HOW MUCH STRESS, DO YOU REALLY KNOW?
IT WAS JUST DECEMBER 2017. Emily think of her future. With so many hell Things and hell work to do. Study must even have to study very high marks or else people would laugh at her - if she fail.
Emily parents expect Emily to study well and get into a better university and continue her studies and get a better career path.
But as what I had just said - a human ability is actually really very limited.
Emily always told her friends and classmates that she wanna be free and can fly on sky free because human life is too difficult for her to live on if everyday is also study a lot of things a lot of subjects and have to get very very high marks on all subjects without failing, plus have to attend to all the extra curricular activities when after school around 4pm to 5pm then can only go home at around 7pm to 8pm.
In December 2017 Emily had plans for the future
What plans
Emily planned to jump down from her grandpa home. If really can not even endure.
Her classmates ask her do not give herself too much stress. Study of course has times that your academic marks are really very low.
But to Emily dictionary, no word is called impossible
(napoleon Bonaparte , " no word is called IMPOSSIBLE in my own dictionary!")
Emily can not endure her studies but not wish her parents worry about herself.
Every time when her dad and mom ask her, Emily said she can still handle her studies very well.
Even when to her older brother, Emily also not tell him that she can not even handle such great stress from studies.
On 2018 January 2, Emily went to the roof at 7:00am
At 7:07am on 2nd January 2018.emily took out her device and WhatsApp one of her own bestie female friends, then tell bestie she is going to leave this world."
Then when her friend received Emily this message on her own WhatsApp. She notify her own mother.
Her mother call Emily mother about the WhatsApp message and ask her find Emily.
Emily mother was going out from the home, already walking on Choy Yee Bridge to go to her own office to work.
7:20 am (2nd January 2018)
Emily jumped down from 24/F to 1/F
2 January 2018, Emily jumped down from 24/F at 7:20 am and her corpse is on the 1/F rooftop at. 7:21am
2 January 2o18, at 7:22am
Police see Emily corpse but still unable to identify or verify who She is
7:25am
Because Emily mom Already go to office, Emily mom call police that her daughter want to die at 7:26am
But it is already 4 minutes after Emily jumped down from 24/F.
Police checked that 4 minutes before Emily mom Call police about Emily
A girl with Emily age was found deceased on the 1/F rooftop without identity verify
Then the police ask Emily mom to come to verify if it is Emily hung.
Then both parents went to the scene and cried together for this.
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this is what Emily classmates did for Emily after she had died on 2 January 2018
This is what Emily classmates made for her on 3rd January 2018
Emily this senior made this for her
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This was Emily mother on 28 March 2018, which is 2 months after Emily died due to this
She went to Japan with a very sad Face because her daughter died 2 months ago.
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this is what Emily friend made for Emily in 2 January 2019
And what do Emily hung case tell us
Emily hung death case tell us that if we really can not handle the stress we must talk to someone who really understand us and can help us when we had reached to an edge that we may wanna suicide
If Emily managed to catch her chance and can tell her parents that she really can not handle her study stress, her parents can find her a better way like transfer to a worse school
Worse school. May not be worse
Best school may not be the best
Whichever school not really important
Important is if your kids can even handle the stress
Many brand name popular school also has zero marks students too
Do you want your kids very good result but suicide and died due to serious study stress like Emily hung
Or a kid who is very bad result. But happy and positive and always stay with you for the rest of your life
I would prefer my kids unable to win anything but can still stay with me for a while of life rather than see them good marks but crying and even suicide and died.
This is how I would really choose.
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