What is your belief about Ancestors and their gifts?

It is said and proven that a child with a spiritual gift must follow the gift or s/he will suffer the consequences until the acceptance of it and doing what is right, what is actually needed by your Ancestors. You can deny the gift but can you live without love, without a job, with no babies of your own? Because that's what the punish you with mostly either always when you get in a relationship you don't find partners with real intentions or you lose your job and become unemployed forever, you being in a serious relationships but cannot bare kids of your own or even worse you be very sick going to different clinic with no solution, get involved in a car accidental but survive just to be in pains, lose people you love your close people for no reason at all them all of a sudden everybody hates you. They look down on you as if you are are some stinking trash.You start to have stress or might even get depressed. Ancestor will do anything to make you follow their gift the might even make you lose your mind act crazy and if you still dont accept it they start by taking your loved ones, kids if you have them they take them as a sign of how serious they are. If you continue denying it they end up taking you or you commit suicide because the hell of life you will be living. But if you follow that gift your life will be bright almost everything you want you might recieve. It is important to follow your gifts for your lives to continue and be better.