Can you see that your boyfriend is gay

"Can you see that your boyfriend is gay"

My female gender friend - she started dating seriously for the first time in college. The guy whom she introduced to her friends was quite high-class – tall, well-mannered, bespectacled, and very cultured. It is normal for everyone to be polite at the beginning of a relationship, as they were not very familiar with each other. However, after six months, my female friend started to realize that something was seriously wronged. The guy was far too polite. Although the guy claimed to be the exact reason was because the guy  himself was a Christian and therefore the guy would not even be able to have any premarital sex, the guy would say no to even slightly intimate physical contact with my female friend whom he dated.

At first, my female friend suspected that the  guy was even cheating on her and my friend had really think that the guy was already full from eating out and did not really need to, but the guy's usual activities consisted of playing sports, video games, and going out to eat with his friends. His social circle was very clean, with no female friends. On the other hand, the guy's personality was very compatible with my friend personality ; the guy seemed like a good friend, knowing what my female friend was really thinking and really wanting, and always ready to help my friend achieve her goals.

When the couple had been dating for almost an year, the girl finally could not take it anymore and my female friend broke up with the guy because their relationship felt more like friends than lovers. The boy, feeling guilty, confessed that he had actually been dating someone else all along. And this lover is even a male. This gay news shocked the girl (my female friend), who was not yet twenty years old in her own age  at the time; my female friend thought the reason was a personality clash, but the exact reason had turned out to be a gender incompatibility that the guy actually is gay who loves identical gender ppl. Now that my female friend is older in her own age , my female friend is very grateful that the gay guy did not go all the way and trick my female friend into marriage. The gay guy and my female friend were able to remain their own pure friendship, and can still be able to stay themselves as pure friends or just friends, and my female friend had  even attended on this gay guy own wedding (although the gay guy own married spouse or the gay guy own partner was no longer the man that she had met and was being cheated on with) ☝🏻.