How I maintain my marriage with husband and how I live together with my mother in law

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My marriage was different from the second one from the beginning

My husband has been loving me for six years

When we were dating, I became very clear,

My husband income is quite different from mine.

But we are extremely passionate and 100% interested.

To me, coming first is the most important thing

The rest, I regard as technical issues

Let me know after we get together

I, a married woman, immediately went into alert mode

Everyone believed that he was greedy for money, sex, and my property.

Exactly the same plot as the TV series

I have asked him: The pressure is so great, do you not want to shrink?

I will remember what he said at that time:

"These are the attitudes of your family members. As long as you do not change, we will leave together."

After we got married, he moved into my house.

He Live with me and my grandma

He put me first in everything

It can be as detailed as having dinner, or as big as finding a job or settling in another country.

Everyone should take care of my situation first

Later, my job became busier and busier and more international.

Business trips and assignments have become commonplace

He flew halfway around the world with me without even a single word of complaint.

Settled in three countries with completely different languages and cultures in five years

He has no fixed income since he started working as an expatriate.

Live off the money I give to my family

There has always been a language and cultural barrier, and finding jobs is inherently difficult.

He enjoys being a house husband

Occasionally, I take on small cases from friends and our company to earn pocket money.

We listened so carefully

Due to my own husband family’s low-wage environment,

When he goes out to look for jobs, his income will not be of much help.

On the contrary, my quality of life will drop a lot.

No one is waiting for you after work, and there is no hot meal.

This is so important to me

This model of the female leading the outside and the male leading the home

I actually benefited from that

I am responsible for collecting money.

When I return home, I reach out my hands for tea and open my mouth for rice.

I love traveling to foreign countries very much

He does not have a permanent job, so he is very cooperative and can leave as soon as I tell him.

Before the epidemic, we were having fun around

My salary is good, there is a return on investment, and my financial situation is good

Grandma always feels sorry for me,

I think this boy has no "future"

Instead, my classmates said that I treated my grandma badly——

My husband is a top student in a prestigious school, but he became a house husband because of me.

I am extremely satisfied with my marriage

A female college classmate voted me "the best husband that I had married"

The only thing I am not satisfied with is that he does not have a fixed income.

Many people think that I am showing off here and moaning for no reason.

Actually, it is really not related.

I just want to say loudly:

Women themselves have the ability and bread

When choosing your partner, why do you have to sacrifice love for money?

Love and bread can go together

Prerequisite - you own the bread first

I am so proud and so sure

I married with love from beginning to end.